Parenthood is one of those journeys that brings immense rewards, but also plenty of challenges. Suddenly, when your time is divided between school runs, extracurricular activities, and work, there doesn’t seem to be any room left for romance. But here’s the good news—it doesn’t have to be that way! Maintaining intimacy is not only possible, it’s essential. Let’s dive into ways to keep the romance alive.

The Challenge of Maintaining Romance

A study from the University of Denver found that nearly 90% of couples experienced a decline in relationship satisfaction after the birth of their first child. It’s clear that babies take up our time, energy, and sleep—a pretty reliable recipe for killing romance. But do we have to accept this as an inevitable consequence? Absolutely not.

Romance isn’t just for you—it’s for your kids, too. Studies show that children thrive when they see their parents love, communicate, and maintain strong relationships. When your relationship is strong, you’re building a more supportive and stable home environment. And let’s be honest, what’s better for a child than seeing their parents smile at each other?

Strategies for Balancing Parenting and Romance

  1. Schedule Regular Date Nights
    You need to remind yourselves that you’re not just “Mom” and “Dad”—you’re a couple, too!
    If getting out isn’t possible, a movie night at home with popcorn after the kids are in bed can be just as romantic. The key? Consistency. Aim for at least one date night a month.
  1. Communicate Openly and Frequently
    Communication is the name of the game. Without open conversations, each partner’s feelings stay bottled up, creating distance.
    You don’t have to discuss everything during a formal meeting at the dinner table. Quiet moments after the kids are asleep, maybe with a glass of wine, are a great time to talk about the day, feelings, and whatever is on your mind.
  2. Share Parenting Responsibilities
    Less pressure = fewer conflicts. When both sides feel the workload is fairly distributed, everyone is happier.
    Try to divide tasks clearly ahead of time, and of course, always remember that flexibility is key.
  3. Keep Physical Touch Alive
    Even small gestures like a quick hug or a kiss when you come home can work wonders.
    Hold hands, cuddle for a few minutes at the end of the day. These small moments help keep the closeness alive.
  4. Prioritize Intimacy
    With kids in the house, it’s challenging, but not impossible.
    This is where NOOM’s love oil can make all the difference. When you finally find that much-needed time together, a natural, high-quality oil can add a layer of sensuality and softness, helping you maintain intimacy in a natural and pleasant way. Even if you don’t have much time, using the oil during spontaneous moments can enrich the experience and deepen your connection.

Conclusion

Yes, raising kids and staying romantic isn’t easy. But with a little planning and effort, it’s possible to balance parenting and your relationship. After all, when you’re happy and connected, it doesn’t just benefit you—it also builds a warm, loving, and supportive environment for your children. So don’t forget to keep the spark alive, even if it means a Netflix date night after the whole house is finally asleep.

Parenthood is one of those journeys that brings immense rewards, but also plenty of challenges. Suddenly, when your time is divided between school runs, extracurricular activities, and work, there doesn’t seem to be any room left for romance. But here’s the good news—it doesn’t have to be that way! Maintaining intimacy is not only possible, it’s essential. Let’s dive into ways to keep the romance alive.

The Challenge of Maintaining Romance

A study from the University of Denver found that nearly 90% of couples experienced a decline in relationship satisfaction after the birth of their first child. It’s clear that babies take up our time, energy, and sleep—a pretty reliable recipe for killing romance. But do we have to accept this as an inevitable consequence? Absolutely not.

Romance isn’t just for you—it’s for your kids, too. Studies show that children thrive when they see their parents love, communicate, and maintain strong relationships. When your relationship is strong, you’re building a more supportive and stable home environment. And let’s be honest, what’s better for a child than seeing their parents smile at each other?

Strategies for Balancing Parenting and Romance

  1. Schedule Regular Date Nights
    You need to remind yourselves that you’re not just “Mom” and “Dad”—you’re a couple, too!
    If getting out isn’t possible, a movie night at home with popcorn after the kids are in bed can be just as romantic. The key? Consistency. Aim for at least one date night a month.
  1. Communicate Openly and Frequently
    Communication is the name of the game. Without open conversations, each partner’s feelings stay bottled up, creating distance.
    You don’t have to discuss everything during a formal meeting at the dinner table. Quiet moments after the kids are asleep, maybe with a glass of wine, are a great time to talk about the day, feelings, and whatever is on your mind.
  2. Share Parenting Responsibilities
    Less pressure = fewer conflicts. When both sides feel the workload is fairly distributed, everyone is happier.
    Try to divide tasks clearly ahead of time, and of course, always remember that flexibility is key.
  3. Keep Physical Touch Alive
    Even small gestures like a quick hug or a kiss when you come home can work wonders.
    Hold hands, cuddle for a few minutes at the end of the day. These small moments help keep the closeness alive.
  4. Prioritize Intimacy
    With kids in the house, it’s challenging, but not impossible.
    This is where NOOM’s love oil can make all the difference. When you finally find that much-needed time together, a natural, high-quality oil can add a layer of sensuality and softness, helping you maintain intimacy in a natural and pleasant way. Even if you don’t have much time, using the oil during spontaneous moments can enrich the experience and deepen your connection.

Conclusion

Yes, raising kids and staying romantic isn’t easy. But with a little planning and effort, it’s possible to balance parenting and your relationship. After all, when you’re happy and connected, it doesn’t just benefit you—it also builds a warm, loving, and supportive environment for your children. So don’t forget to keep the spark alive, even if it means a Netflix date night after the whole house is finally asleep.

List of ingredients:

Coconut oil Ingredients: 

HYDROGENATED COCONUT OIL, PRUNUS AMYGLALUS DULCIS (SWEET ALMOND) OIL, AQUA (WATER), SIMMONDSIA CHINENSIS (JOJOBA) SEED OIL, STEVIA REBAUDIANA EXTRACT, HELIANTHUS ANNUUS HYBRID (SUNFLOWER) OIL, TOCOPHERYL ACETATE, FLAVOUR, MACADAMIA TERNIFOLIA SEED OIL, PERSEA GRATISSIMA (AVOCADO) OIL, PHENOXYETHANO L, ETHYLHEXYLGLYCERIN.

Mint Ingredients:
HYDROGENATED COCONUT OIL, PRUNUS AMYGLALUS, DULCIS (SWEET ALMOND) OIL, AQUA (WATER), FLAVOUR- MENTHA, SIMMONDSIA CHINENSIS (JOJOBA) SEED OIL, PHENOXYETHANOL, STEVIA REBAUDIANA EXTRACT, HELIANTHUS ANNUUS HYBRID (SUNFLOWER) OIL, TOCOPHERYL ACETATE, MENTHOL, MACADAMIA TERNIFOLIA SEED OIL, PERSEA GRATISSIMA (AVOCADO) OIL, ETHYLHEXYLGLYCERIN, MENTHA VIRIDIS LEAF OIL, LIMONENE,LINALOOL, EUGENOL

Lime Ingredients:

HYDROGENATED COCONUT OIL, PRUNUS AMYGLALUS DULCIS (SWEET ALMOND) OIL, AQUA (WATER), FLAVOUR- LIME, SIMMONDSIA CHINENSIS (JOJOBA) SEED OIL, PHENOXYETHANOL, STEVIA REBAUDIANA EXTRACT, HELIANTHUS ANNUUS HYBRID (SUNFLOWER) OIL, TOCOPHERYL ACETATE, MENTHOL, MACADAMIA TERNIFOLIA SEED OIL, PERSEA GRATISSIMA (AVOCADO) OIL, ETHYLHEXYLGLYCERIN

Cherry Ingredients:

HYDROGENATED COCONUT OIL, PRUNUS AMYGLALUS DULCIS (SWEET ALMOND) OIL, AQUA (WATER), FLAVOUR- CHERRY, SIMMONDSIA CHINENSIS (JOJOBA) SEED OIL, PHENOXYETHANOL, STEVIA REBAUDIANA EXTRACT, HELIANTHUS ANNUUS HYBRID (SUNFLOWER) OIL, TOCOPHERYL ACETATE, MENTHOL, MACADAMIA TERNIFOLIA SEED OIL, PERSEA GRATISSIMA (AVOCADO) OIL, ETHYLHEXYLGLYCERIN

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